Planner seeking planner

I'm a planner AND a planner person. And if you are too, you likely already have a planner (or two) for this year. It is already/only late February, so they are clearing them out. If you need a change, I can attest to two that are great.

Last year, I had one from Erin Condren, which of course I couldn't resist because it had my signature HDT quote on the cover... (now 40% off, when purchased with gift labels, using code "COMBO2013")

This year, I opted for a Lilly (Pulitzer)... In "Skip on it" and "You gotta regatta". They are now only $8-$12 (in three sizes), no code needed, and ship free through Th 2/26.   Enjoy!

14 months old

The kids turned 14 months old yesterday.  The months are really flying now.  The saying that the days are slow, but the years are fast is dead on.  One day I will wake up and they will be all grown up.

His sweet smiles just melt my heart.  And with his daddy's coloring, he can pull off wearing any color, especially bright ones, with ease.  It's funny, he's the super mellow one now.  Someone told me that they'd switch personalities at some point, but I didn't believe them or think it was possible.

This little girl is fun, but so mischievous, can you see that look on her face?  We're in big trouble.  That's from her dad (that and the curly hair). 

Did I ever mention that he waited until long after we were married to tell me that he'd been a really naughty kid?   Thanks hon.  He was a good student, but apparently going to a Catholic school for 15 years brings out the bad or something.  He said he and his co-conspirators friends had a policy that as long as their antics weren't illegal and didn't involve girls, they were golden.  He also somehow thought that telling me that he'd been his high school's prom king was somehow going to make up for this revelation.  (This is especially ironic because I didn't even go to mine.  I turned down the friend who asked me to go with him (how terrible is that?) and babysat for my math teacher instead.  But don't worry about the kid, he went with another friend, married a lovely girl he met at Cornell, and now is a rising star at Google.)

I had a great trip to NY last weekend.  I went on the cheap (FF miles and stayed in my sister Jen and her boyfriend's extra bedroom in Brooklyn) and also got to visit my friend (and old Chicago roomie) Shelby and her little Beto there too.  He's almost two and such a cutie pie.  I hadn't seen them since we went to NYC & the Hamptons 18 months ago, when things were going downhill with the twins, and he was just a little bug.  It is always so good to see her, she reminded me I don't need to be a mommy martyr and am allowed to go back to work.  And thankfully she has an awesome job, because her husband just lost his.

We went downtown and walked around too, but it was so cold (we saw Silver Linings Playbook, which I recommend and the season finale to Downton, which I'm not sure if I do...).  I'm so ready for spring (please let us have one this year?!)  I'm already thinking about the weather warming up and getting ready to order our new patio furniture.  Home Depot is doing a fun thing this year where you can mix and match/customize your sets.  I think we are getting the Fall River one, since it is just what I was looking for (metal w/cushions, six chairs, and no glass top).

Oh, and I finally found a preschool for emerging two year olds for the fall.  I am so excited! :)

Life happenings

I finally went to a twin mom's group last night (yes, the kids are nearly 14 months old). It was okay, thankfully my expectations weren't that high. They are having a big sale in a few weeks, so much of the talk was about that. It's like dating never ends... It isn't difficult meeting people, it is just difficult meeting like-minded people who don't make you feel like either you or they are crazy. Sigh...

The kids are still on two daily naps, which really limits our ability to do activities, as they always and everywhere seem to be scheduled during their prime sleeping hours (not something I'm willing to sacrifice) but I'm working on getting us to classes and the library now that they are bigger and will likely be dropping one before long. We are so excited for pool season to start, I so hope they like to go. While we have one in our neighborhood, I've been doing recon and will be taking them to a few of the many nearby with more and earlier morning hours, toddler pools, and splashgrounds. I can not wait.

I'm busily planning a million things: my impromptu (and as yet unplanned) trip to see my best sister (and another of my best friends) in NYC this weekend, multiple grandparent visits, a trip to the sugar bush and Easter stuff, and hopefully a getaway for the four of us to somewhere warmer before Spring. I could seriously use a few more active hours every day, I really need to find sitters that I love so that I can get more done. In my free time. I used to think that moms who stayed home AND had help were lazy or something, but now I realize that it is very difficult to do everything by yourself while caring for two small children.

This winter has been a joke, yet again, and while I hate to complain when so many people have way too much snow and cold for their liking, that is after all one of the things that makes Chicago Chicago, having seasons that is. We've gotten just a few inches of snow all winter, like last year, which now is gone from the warmth and rain. No snowmen or sleigh for us... :(  I may just send the feet for the wagon back to LLB.

The kids teethe like crazy, I can hardly keep track. He's got one molar now and more of them on the way. We are going to the dentist for the first time in a few weeks, which should be interesting.

Happy Mardi Gras! :)

...And Taxes

Somehow my last two posts ending up being about the tragic deaths of two young mothers (cheery stuff, sorry), so any way is up from there right?  Somewhere above that is filing one's taxes... As much as I love eye candy, (not to be a Debbie downer but) we're all about real life over here, not a bunch of motherhood and Photoshop BS (you mean you don't glow like that as you scramble about in your yoga pants?)

Well, I guess the kids kinda glow when the sun comes in the picture window.  Close enough... ;)

Anywho back to taxes...  Do you file your own?  Have/pay someone else to do it for you?  Owe?  Get a refund?  What do you do with it?  Pay bills?  Save?  Go shopping/on vaca?

I've always done my own, but then we did the accountant thing for awhile when we started our own business (which ended up being more of a PITA than it was worth in the end), and now we do them on our own again.  These guys offer an easy and free/low fee service to file online, though there are many options out there.  It is really handy to use the same software/site every year because you don't have to reenter everything, just update it when you get your year end forms.  Even with a small business, it is not that bad doing them yourself, though I admit to being a numbers person. 

We used to owe (a lot) being DINKs for so many years, and then last year got our first refund in a long time.  We updated DH's W-4 withholding (and I didn't work outside of home) last year, but apparently it didn't take (and we didn't notice/follow-up w/HR), so we ended up with an even bigger one this year (oops).  I know better than to think this is a good thing, but what are you going to do, I've had other things on my plate.  If you like to get a big check at the end of the year, decrease your withholding/increase exemptions on your W-4, set up an auto deposit to a savings account and you get the same (plus interest and the liquidity during the year) in the end.  Even having less withheld so you owe is a better deal, assuming you have the money saved.  I guess the good news is we have an unexpected windfall to go to my car, my IRA and the kids' 529s.

Happy Filing! :)